Mila Kunis & Ashton Kutcher are not more than just friends, a representative insists

A representative for the 'Black Swan' beauty clarifies reports that the former co-stars on 'That '70s Show' grabbed a sushi dinner together in Studio City on Sunday, April 15.

Contrary to recent speculations, there is nothing romantic going on between Mila Kunis and Ashton Kutcher. After words spread that the former co-stars on "That '70s Show" spent time together on Sunday, April 15, a representative for Kunis came forward to shoot down any dating rumors.

In response to report that Kunis and Kutcher cozied up while enjoying a sushi dinner together, her representative told Celebuzz, "They've been friends for years and they had dinner with a bunch of friends. They're not dating." A friend of the 28-year-old actress added to Us Weekly that the twosome were joined by "three other people" for the Sunday dinner.

The so-called pal is also adamant that there is no way the two might become a couple. "No! They're so not dating," insisted the friend. "They've been friends for years. But she would never ever. Definitely nothing going on there."

Kunis and Kutcher were linked together after X17 Online reported about their day-long date on Sunday. Accordingly, the twosome went furniture shopping before grabbing dinner together at Asanebo in Studio City. For the outing, Kunis wore skin-tight skinny jeans and super-high heels and Kutcher sported sweater and a baseball cap.

"Ashton was touching Mila's hand and Mila was all dressed up," a photographer for the site spilled. "She looked hot; this was definitely more than a dinner between friends - this was a full-on date!" It was said that after the dinner, the two returned to Kutcher's new Hollywood Hills home.

AND YET IN ANOTHER DEVELOPMENT....

MILA Kunis and Ashton Kutcher add fuel to rumours they’re dating by sharing an intimate kiss.

The couple appear to have taken their burgeoning relationship to the next level, locking lips at the Hollywood wrap party for Ashton’s movie biopic based on the life of Apple impresario Steve Jobs.

Their public display of affection came despite the prying eyes of the actor’s castmates and crew buddies on the Jobs production.

The smitten pair have yet to confirm their romance, but Mila left onlookers in little doubt as she tenderly touched Ashton’s face and draped an arm around him.

Mila, 28, and Ashton, 34, met on the set of That ‘70s Show in 1998, playing onscreen couple Jackie and Kelso.

Last week, they went for a motorbike spin on the actor’s two-wheeler before heading to Hollywood Cemetery on what was said to be the anniversary of the death of Mila’s grandmother.

They also celebrated the Fourth Of July together at Ashton’s family home and were spotted canoodling throughout the day.

The actor split with wife Demi Moore, 49, last year after dumping him over his alleged fling with Sara Leal.

Blonde Sarah claimed she slept with Ashton on the night of his sixth wedding anniversary.

After publically announcing the end of her marriage in November, Demi took to Twitter in May to officially declare herself single.

The devastated Hollywood superstar switched her Twitter tag from @mrskutcher to @justdemi - to the shock of her five million followers.

Has Zari and Sylvia gone Lesbo?

News coming in from the land of partying.....Uganda.....

Sylvia Owori and Billionaire singer Zari Hassan were kissing and cuddling on a boat cruise!

City socialite Zari Hassan has done it yet again and she will stop at nothing in her bid to have a good life. The South Africa based self styled philanthropist put on a raunchy show with city fashionista Sylvia Owori as hubby Ivan and toyboy Malik cheered them on. This happened on Easter Monday during a boat cruise on L.Victoria as booze took its toll on them. A snoop intimated; “They were totally lost in their own world not caring what was going on around them. They were all over each other the whole evening.”

However, when temperatures reached boiling point, the two city socialites started touching, groping and snogging in the full of view of their hubbies. “It was a deep kiss and they did it with eyes closed,” a snoop added. Owori made tongues wag around town in 2010, while watching the World Cup, when she French kissed motor mouthed journalist and Independent Magazine boss, Andrew Mwenda. That picture went viral when it was published. The two later claimed they have been friends and did that as a ‘civilised’ way of greeting each other. The boat cruise which was organized and funded by Zari for friends and family set off at around 4:00pm from Kampala University shoreline for K Palm beach on the Island. The boat had a total of 70 people that included a bevy of curvy Queen Dancers who provided raunchy entertainment that included lap dances to horny lads.

THE LITTLE THINGS THAT MATTER IN LIFE…

MARRIED OR NOT YOU SHOULD READ THIS

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.

So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!


If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage or a relationship. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up

HOW DO YOU TELL SHE'S A GOLD DIGGER?

I met this girl some two weeks ago when I was with my brother,I got her number and I asked her to go and catch a movie at arcades on Friday, 16th, March..

When we were at the counter about to buy tickets, I got K100,000 Zambian Kwacha( in two 50 pin notes since two tickets were going at K60, 000 on Friday) from my wallet I gave the sales man and he handed me the change, to my surprise and embarrassment the new girl quickly grabbed the change that the sales man handed back to me.

The movie was to start in 30 minutes and so we sat to chill for the movie. She said she wanted to check out something in a boutique so we went in the boutique and worse still she picked a pair of shoes and told me she loved them and she wanted me to buy her the shoes that very moment.

I don’t know who if she’s a gold digger, but how can i describe this kind of a person? That was the first time we went out together on a date…. I didn’t buy her shoes though I felt bit guilty for not doing so.

what do you think about this kind of a person fellow bloggers?

Big Means Beautiful, Wealthy and Flyyyy…

As I was growing, I knew that if you are big bodied then you’re rich lol :) . I remember some Zambia musicians would even sing bout it, songs like, “Tifuna kukala namimba monga benvee”

This morning I found this article and thought of sharing, I don’t know how it was with you growing up. How is it right now, my folks when I was young I was big, and some would argue saying I was huge lol (Real Life). Well enjoy remember to leave yo comments….

BLACK women are heavier AND happier with their bodies than white women, says poll and not Arnold hahahaha!

A US survey found that 66 per cent of overweight or obese black women had high self-esteem compared to 41 per cent of average-sized or thin white females.

Looking good was a top priority, with 28 per cent of black ladies saying physical attractiveness is "very important", compared to 11 per cent of white women.

X Factor star Alexandra Burke, 23, echoed this sentiment in a recent interview when she said: "I am a curvaceous girl. I like having an ass. No man can tell me they want a skinny bird. I don't have big boobs but that doesn't mean I am going to get a big old boob job. I don't feel pressured in any way. Those people who want to go out there and be a size zero, it's not a great reflection on how a woman should look."

SO WHAT IS IT THAT MAKES SOME BLACK WOMEN HAPPY WITH THEIR CURVES WHILE MANY WHITE GIRLS ARE ADDICTED TO DIETING?

Here, we speak to two women proud to be body-confident (Testimonies).

JOYCELYN PHILLIPS, 38 has two children, Amaliah, 17, and Zachary, 11.

The manager from Hampstead, north west London, believes a healthy appetite equals a healthy bank balance and also goes towards creating an utterly gorgeous, curvy body.
Dress size: 16
Shoe size: 8
Since having my children, I have got bigger but my confidence has never wavered. My tummy is big but it was the home of my two children so why would I get rid of it? I am a 5ft 9in, size 16 woman and proud of it. I wear make-up, buy beautiful clothes and weaves and look after myself.

I call myself B.I.G Being Intentionally Gorgeous.

Even though I'm 38, I have more guys chasing me than ever. In our culture being bigger is not only beautiful it's also a sign of wealth. People assume that if you are skinny, you can't afford to eat. Meal times are all about sharing so the table is always full of food and everyone tucks in. In my experience, men like their women to jiggle and have a bubbly personality that is far more attractive than a washboard stomach. In the Caribbean, clothing and make-up is colorful to accentuate our curvaceous shape. If I went back to the West Indies to see my family and had lost weight, they would think I was ill. Over there, women don't give their size a second thought. There are size 26 girls who walk around in shorts and mini dresses with their men hanging on to their lumps and bumps they are 100 per cent fabulous. I don't read magazines because I feel the images are unrealistic. I really believe that it's unfair to make women feel like they have to be a size zero. We are becoming a country of easily influenced women who aspire to look like skinny, scrawny models and that's not normal. I have a tattoo across my lower back saying "GORGEOUS" that's how strongly I feel about my body image. My mum brought me up to love my reflection and that's what I want to pass on to my daughter.

MICHELLE EDWARDS, 37 SOCIABLE office temp, from Waltham stow, east London, says food is at the heart of her family life.

Dress size: 14
Shoe size: 7

In my family we were always encouraged to be ourselves. My mum would say: "Be proud and don't aspire to be anyone but yourself." That confidence has stayed with me. Meal times are a big deal in black culture. Growing up, I was so aware that everyone eats together and meal times are treated as a celebration it really wouldn't be acceptable to not eat with the family. If something was cooked for you, you would eat it. Meals were cooked with the anticipation of visitors arriving and needing feeding. Even if there were no visitors planned that day, there would be enough food cooked just in case. All Caribbean families cook extra. It is so important for a household to have food that can be served straight away. The theory behind this tradition is you may not have a lot of material belongings but you can always feed. I know there has been a lot of media attention surrounding famous black women and their bottoms but I'm not sure why. White girls can have great bottoms, too! My bum isn't especially big or especially small but I was always taught to be happy with the genes I was born with. After all, being healthy is the most important thing. Weight loss was never encouraged in my household and there certainly wasn't any talk of going to the gym. My father was a wonderful influence. Dad believes natural is beautiful and that was paramount in making me feel confident as I grew up. My mother is curvy and she has tried diets but they never lasted. I think dad prefers her looking voluptuous. My boyfriends have always preferred me bigger. But it's not all about men. Me and my girlfriends all really look out for each other. We tell each other how fabulous we are all the time. That's how it should be.

HALA EL-SHAFIE - Dietician Specialist said, WE live in a society which idealizes and values its women based primarily on how they look. This is reflected in the disturbingly high proportion of women caught up in a cycle of yo-yo dieting, poor self-esteem and negative body image. Women should be thankful for a healthy body, food in the fridge, abundance of choice and for the ability to nurture and nourish their family. But instead, we sadly live in a society where many women can't enjoy food without guilt, and are body and diet obsessed. There is a massive pressure on women to look a certain way and our ideals of beauty are the images that are reflected back at us in the pages of the magazines. I have clinics and workshops full of women who have crippling levels of self-esteem and unhealthy relationships with food and their bodies. I feel the same sort of pressures around appearance as any woman but, culturally, I was raised to value who I am as a person and my worth was not dependant on how I looked or my body shape but rather my strength of character. I grew up in the kitchen with a mum who could prepare a meal for 50 at the drop of a hat and where food and celebration went hand in hand and are the cornerstone of family life.

LAPTOPS AND THE BED

Be aware when u work with laptop my friends, brothers and sisters, colleagues and everyone reading this!
ZeeChild’s Analysis
This message comes as a warning that it may be dangerous to use a laptop computer in bed because of the possibility that the device could overheat and cause a fire. As evidence of this possible danger, please read through the story below:

A couple lost their 25 year old son, Arun Gopal Ratnam, in a fire at home on June 4th. The son who had graduated with MBA from the University of Wisconsin-Madison two weeks earlier had come home for a while. He had lunch with his dad at home and decided to go back to clean up his hostel room. His father told him to wait, to meet his mother, before he went back for a few days. Arun decided to take a nap while waiting for his mom to come back home from work. Sometime later their neighbors called 911 when they saw black smoke coming out of the house. Unfortunately, 25 years old Arun died in the three year old house. It took several days of investigation to find out the cause of the fire. It was determined that the fire was caused by the lap top resting on the bed. When the lap top was on the bed, the cooling fan in the computer did not get the air to cool the computer and that is what caused the fire. He did not even wake up to get out of the bed because he died of breathing in carbon monoxide.

The reason I am writing this to all of you is that I have seen many of us and also our sons and daughters using the lap top while in bed. Let us all decide and make it a practice not to do that. The risk is real. Let us make it a rule not to use the lap top on bed with blankets and pillows around. The cooling fan was unable to stop the computer from overheating because the vents underneath were blocked by its position on the soft bed, thus leading to the fatal fire.

That said, it should be noted that fires have indeed been caused by laptops left on beds or couches. An August 2009 CBC news reports describes a case in which a Vancouver man died in a fire caused by an overheating laptop.

“Reports came out that the fire started after the computer was left on a couch, plugged in and turned on. Because of the lack of ventilation under the laptop, less than an hour later the lithium-ion battery overheated and burst into flames, sparking the fire that eventually killed the man.”

ZeeChild’s Recommendations
I am hereby recommending anyone using a laptop take the following precautions.
 Always operate on a hard surface that allows ventilation. Soft materials can block the airflow vents and cause it to overheat.
 If it is not possible to avoid using a soft surface, an optional heat-sink base should be used to maintain cooling.
 You can also use a pile of newspapers, but not kavera’s, hard cover books etc
 Always shut down your laptop, even for short periods of time, especially when placed in a carry bag.
 Inspect and clean the air vents on a weekly basis. Forced-air dusters can be used to keep the vents clean and free from debris.
 Replace any equipment or parts that do not work.
 Using a laptop desk or cooler to allow air circulation between the laptop and the desk
 Always when you buy a new laptop, start utilizing the manufacturers' website for additional safety tips and recommended maintenance for yo gadget or how to take care of it.
I hope this info was helpful and you will take care of yoself DEAL? Chili OK? And please pass on this message to everyone else…. PLEASE EDUCATE AS MANY PEOPLE (Yo friends and family) AS YOU CAN

Stoppila Sunzu has set his sights on a switch to England

Zambia star Sunzu targets move to Premier League with Chelsea or Bolton................Stoppila Sunzu has set his sights on a move to England after becoming a hero in Zambia for converting the winning penalty in Sunday’s African Nations Cup final against Ivory Coast. Zambia beat the Elephants 8-7 in a drama-filled penalty shootout in Libreville, following a 0-0 draw, to win the Nations Cup for the first time. After the Under 20 World Cup in Canada in 2007, Sunzu impressed in trials with English side Reading but he was denied a work permit.

'I played for (French club) Chateauroux in the 2008-09 season and I would love to come back to Europe,' said Sunzu who is now with the Democratic Republic of Congo team TP Mazembe.
'I have a dream to play in England as I prefer Chelsea and Bolton Wanderers,' the defender told Romanian media.
The 22-year-old enhanced his growing reputation by keeping Ivory Coast and Chelsea striker Didier Drogba quiet for much of Sunday’s final.
'Drogba was almost invisible, it was very easy for me,' said Sunzu. 'I have no secret, I’m not afraid of any player or team regardless of names.
'I was very confident throughout the match. I was focused and it helped me to convert the last penalty.'

Champs: Zambia celebrate their Africa Cup of Nations win over the Ivory Coast
Frenchman Herve Renard coached Zambia at the Nations Cup but Sunzu also credited predecessor Dario Bonetti of Italy who was sacked in October, two days after the team had qualified for the finals.
'He (Bonetti) is a great coach, he did a very good job,” said the defender. “He contributed greatly to winning the cup although he wasn’t with us during the tournament.'
Sunzu said the players were given a unique reception in Zambia after the final.
'It was unbelievable,' he said. 'Such a thing has never happened before in our country.
'People marched through the streets of Lusaka to celebrate with us and we were received like heroes.'

Who said Zambians are done? Africa cup was just the beginin' of a New World in Zambian Football... Watch the space, in Brazil WC

ZAMBIA ARE THE KINGS OF AFRICA....Chipolopolo nichimwela cheeka cheeka!

I remember in 1993, i was just in grade 7 at Lotus Primary School, Lusaka, Zambia. When heard cars hooting in Independence Avenue and Burma Road, then the news came. Ba Zambia National Team baafa...Ba crusha hmmmm. For some of us who used to collected pictures in the magazines and newspapers to kambatika in our old exercises books, knew what the news meant, coz we knew where the National team went. it was a very sad moment, it was around 11am when the news came, we had to leave school and went home. All the way on Burma Road, cars were hooting and lights on. Reach Burma and Mumuni Primary all the pupils were also out. WHAT A SHAME, to loose our National players and Zambians ambassadors in football. with all said...May their souls rest in peace (RIP). But God this year 2012, showed us that He can do wonders. Zambia conjured up a shock when they toppled star-studded Ivory Coast in a penalty shootouts 8-7 to claim their FIRST ever Africa Cup of Nations title on Sunday.

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With the sides goalless after extra time Zambia's Stoppila Sunzu converted the magic spot kick after Arsenal striker Gervinho missed for the Elephants. The result meant misery for hot favourites Ivory Coast, who failed to claim the title despite not conceding a goal throughout the entire competition until Sunday's shootout. It also revived memories for Didier Drogba, who missed a penalty in the second half of normal time, and company of their 2006 penalty shootout final defeat to Egypt in Cairo. Zambia, motivated by the memory of the 1993 national team wiped out in a plane crash off the Libreville coast, went into the 2012 climax as outsiders.
But they covered themselves with glory, hassling and harrowing their star-studded rivals all the way to the penalty shoot-out, and then holding their nerve to prevail in the dramatic, barely watchable denouement.

Ivory Coast coach Francois Zahoui fielded the same side that saw off Mali 1-0 in the semifinal.
His Zambian counterpart, Herve Renard, recalled striker Emmanuel Mayuka, after his starring role in getting the decisive goal in the 1-0 last four defeat over Ghana. He joined captain Christopher Katongo in spearheading the Chipolopolo's (Copper Bullets) attack. Russian-based midfielder Chisamba Lungu came in for Francis Kasonde. A minute of silence was observed before kick-off in memory of the 74 people killed in the Port Said stadium slaughter in Egypt.
The game was only seconds old when Zambia almost took a shock lead, with keeper Boubacar Barry doing well to save Nathan Sinkala's close range shot off Katongo's quick pass from a Rainford Kalaba corner. Renard was forced into an unscripted change when defender Joseph Musonda limped off in tears on 11 minutes - Nyambe Mulenga took his place. A shaky start by Ivory Coast gave Zambia hope of an upset and Kalaba's 30m freekick wasn't far away after taking a deflection off Cheik Tiote's leg.

The Elephants put together their best passage of play approaching the half hour mark, a neat Drogba backheel setting up Yaya Toure only for the Manchester City midfielder's angled shot to go wide of the far post. A hugely promising first half from Zambia had the Elephants' defence, marshalled by Kolo Toure, under more pressure than they would have wanted, with Katongo leading from the front. Zahoui, ressembling a New York cop with black trenchcoat and baseball cap, walked into the dressing rooms at halftime with a face like thunder. The second half began with a deathly hush descending on the stadium - the final in desperate need of the kiss of life in the guise of a goal. And on 72 minutes one should have come after Ivory Coast were awarded a penalty when Issac Chansa and Mulenga barged into Gervinho. Drogba stepped up but his woeful attempt went soaring into the night sky, even though he appeared to divert blame to the pitch, glaring at the spot. This was his second miss from the spot after he had a penalty saved in the quarterfinal win over Equatorial Guinea, where he went on to score twice. One minute later Max Gradel's shot from the box had Zambia keeper Kennedy Mweene beaten, but it rolled wide of the far post.

In the 95th minute, substitute Felix Katongo crossed from the right for his brother Christopher with only Barry's toe diverting the goalbound ball off the near post. There was high drama once the penalty shoot out got underway, with Kolo Toure missing the Ivorians seventh penalty, but Zambia's Kalaba also missing his to leave the sides still inseparable. Then after Gervinho failed in his attempt it was left to Sunzu, the defender who plays his club football in the Democratic Republic of Congo, to give Zambia a historic first title, and consign Ivory Coast to another wretched defeat.

Ivory Coast 0 Zambia 0 - aet
Zambia win 8-7 on penalties

Penalty shootout:

Tiote 1-0, C. Katongo 1-1, Bony 2-1, Mayuka 2-2, Bamba (retake) 3-2, Chansa 3-3, Gradel 4-3, F. Katongo 4-4, Drogba 5-4, Mweene 5-5, Tiene 6-5, Sinkala 6-6, Ya Konan 7-6, Lungu 7-7, K. Toure saved 7-7, Kalaba missed 7-7, Gervinho missed 7-7, Sunzu 7-8

Teams Zambia: Kennedy Mweene, Joseph Musonda (Nyambe Mulenga 12, Felix Katongo 74), Stoppila Sunzu, Hichani Himoonde, Davies Nkausu, Nathan Sinkala, Chisamba Lungu, Isaac Chansa, Christopher Katongo (capt), Rainford Kalaba, Emmanuel Mayuka
Coach: Herve Renard (FRA)

Ivory Coast: Boubacar Barry, Siaka Tiene, Kolo Toure, Souleymane Bamba, Jean-Jacques Gosso, Cheik Tiote, Didier Zokora (Didier Ya Konan 75), Yaya Toure (Wilfried Bony 87), Salomon Kalou (Max Gradel 63), Didier Drogba (capt), Gervinho
Coach: Francois Zahoui

Yellow cards: Tiote 63, Bamba 66, Mulenga 69

Referee: Badara Diatta (SEN)

At long last, Zambia we've won the AFCON...History has been created....@ZeeChild

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WHAT Women REALLY Want From MEN

What do women want? For those who’ve ever pondered this question, WebMD offers 19 relationship secrets. They’re based on the study of healthy, happy couples and our changing gender roles.

A caring guy is a hot guy
Secret No. 1: Women appreciate a guy with a sensitive side, especially when they’re upset. Put your arm around her and hand her a tissue. Nurturing is a powerful way to connect.

Chivalry still has a place
When it comes to romance, many women do like men to take a traditional masculine role. This is especially true in the wooing stage of a relationship, according to psychologist Diana Kirschner, PhD, who’s written several books about love.
She’s perfectly capable of pulling out her own chair or opening a door, but if you see her hesitate, she might just be waiting for you to be the gentleman.

Dress to impress
Styles come and go, but a man’s attention to his grooming and clothing should be long lasting. It’s important to women from the first flirtation through the honeymoon and beyond.
“You’ve got to figure out if there’s a certain look that she likes,” says Kirschner. “If she likes a guy in tight jeans, you wear tight jeans.”

Guy wears red, Guy gets girl
OK, this tip doesn’t come from women, but from clever testing by psychologists of women’s subconscious preferences.
One intriguing study found that the color red made men seem more powerful, attractive, and sexually desirable to women. There’s a caveat, though. Red doesn’t make guys appear nicer or kinder. That part is up to you.

Don’t hide your flaws
Nothing captures a woman’s heart quite like a good man who wants to be a better man, according to love guru Kirschner.
“Women love personal growth, they love a man who is thoughtful and sensitive.”
She likes it when her man recognizes a flaw — a short temper, for example, or a regularly sullen mood after work — and loves it when he makes an effort to address it.

Don’t try to fix her world
When something’s bothering her, she wants your ear, not your advice. “Men feel the need to fix things because they are solution-oriented,” says Kirschner.
“But to a woman, really listening is a wonderful, wonderful thing that deepens the relationship.”

Nodding is not enough
Listening is important, but she also wants to know that she is being heard. Nodding along won’t cut it. When she pauses, she’s giving you a cue to respond in a compassionate, caring way, says Kirschner. If she tells you that she is upset because her boss gave her a tough time, she wants to hear you say “I’m sorry that work was such a drag for you today.”
And remember: Resist the urge to offer solutions.

Date No. 3 is not a bedroom key
The three dates before sex rule is an urban legend. Women don’t set a timeline on when they’ll invite a potential partner into the bedroom. Some women will want to have many dates before sex. A good rule of thumb is to give the relationship at least two months to grow before entering the sexual arena.

Women like the slow lane
Guys often want to take the quickest path to sex. But many women prefer the scenic route.
“Women want sex but they get to it in a different way,” says psychologist Kirschner, who has helped hundreds of couples achieve a more rewarding relationship.
“They want to feel connected and understood, they want to be romanced.” That means time and talking and touching — in other words, foreplay.

Safe sex is a turn-on
This is something both of you need to focus on, but Kirschner says that women appreciate it and feel more protected when the guy makes clear that it’s a concern to him — and then shows her that he practices what he preaches.

Learn what she wants in bed
Women do like to talk about what’s going on in the sack, and they want to please their man — and a tactful approach is often best. Ask her what she likes. Be sure to ask for what you want in a positive and validating way. Kirschner advises saying something along the lines of, “I would really love if you [fill in the blanks].”

Performance anxiety is shared
When you have an off night and can’t perform, she feels bad, too. She might worry that she no longer turns you on and she will want assurance that that is not true.
She will want to talk about what’s going on and what you are doing about it, especially if it’s a recurring problem. “It’s a touchy thing for both of you,” says Kirschner, “but talking about it is a plus.”

Mirroring is a barometer of love
Remember the saying “imitation is the highest form of flattery”? A woman often conveys how she feels about you by mirroring your moods and moves.
She may order a meal that pairs with yours, wear your favorite color, or smile or cross her arms when you do. Mimicking is her way of putting you at ease and letting you know she is charmed.

Your shirt may be a love magnet
Does your partner curl up in your sweater or sneak into your work shirt? Some researchers have found that the scent of a man’s perspiration has a relaxing effect on women.

Say it, again and again
Women like to be told they look nice, and they like a man who notices without being told.
When she’s wearing a sexy new dress, for example, she’ll give you major points for saying how hot she looks, especially if you mention the dress before she does. If she’s looking particularly attractive, if she has a new haircut, if she’s looking more fit — let her hear about it.

Don’t fear the relationship talk
When your woman wants to talk about the relationship, it doesn’t mean you did something wrong (well, not necessarily). Kirschner says that many women like to talk about the “state of the union” — what’s going right, what’s going wrong, or simply what’s going on. This is a good thing. An honest, wide-ranging talk can bring the two of you closer.

Look your partner in the eye
You may feel more comfortable sitting side by side, but many women prefer face time — and we don’t mean the latest mobile video chat technology. Kirschner says that women prefer their men to make eye contact with them as they’re talking. And looking her in the eye during sex will deepen the relationship outside the bedroom.

Don’t miss the moment
How do you know if she is ready to commit? She’ll say so. This is something that women are often quite upfront about. But they don’t want to have “the talk” too often. If she’s ready and she’s given you time, the next time the subject comes up, be prepared to step up or step off.
Romance is simple; Keep it coming Romance is something she will always want, whether you’ve been together two months or 20 years. Flowers, an intimate dinner, a few lines of love poetry — don’t worry, they don’t have to be your own — might sound cliché, but Kirschner insists that most women appreciate such simple romantic gestures and often show their appreciation after the lights go down.

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